i have a samsung phone that wont let me use ringtones on my phone…i can use internet, recive pics and all that good stuff…is there a setting on the phone that I can change?

So my parents of thinking of getting me a new phone for Christmas(Due to the Sidekick outage and my phone wont work properly). I really cant choose between the Cliq or the Behold II.

Motorola Cliq:Pros:Physical keyboard, sleek design, and the fact that its an android, also the 5 MP camera.Cons:Theres no flash, i hear the battery dies fast.

Samsung Behold II:Pros:Android based, its a samsung phone, i hear it has an excellent battery, it has flash for the camera and its 5 MP.Cons:No physical keyboard, its mixed with the touch wiz, and that its super laggy.
So can anyone else tell me about these two phones and which one would be better?
Also im a big texter, call a lot, takes a ton of pics, and listens to music all the time.
P.S: can you customize the wallpaper on them and have one of your mp3 songs as a ringtone?
Thanks

I want a new phone for christmas-one w/video wallpaper. I was looking at a samsung phone and it said it had living wallpaper. What is that?